Does anyone live in Bilboa or know about it??? I need to know how to find out if someone in bilboa is married. Maybe a center or government office?Does anyone know how i would do this??? How can i search for his company(he has major business's there)or him??? PLEASE HELP. I am being lied to in a big way Thanks all princess
princess
Posts: 4 | Location: Los Angeles USA | Registered: 07 November 2002
I believe that all marriages here are public record and would have to appear in the "Registro Civil" (Civil Registry) but I do not think the lists are digitalized and if they are they do not seem to be online.
You have a very difficult task at hand unless you hire a private "ojo" (eye ) there to find out if he is married. If you did decide to do that the "MATRICULA (LICENSE PLATE #) = BI-003768-CC" would surely come in handy for the private dick They can get loads of info with very little to work with.
Saludos & Suerte, jer...
p.d. If I think of anything else I will let you know here.
Hi Jer, I saw that page also but don't read spanish and didn't know what it said. Also a problem for me, the language barrier. NO cash for private eye. At that cost i would fly there myself and follow him. But maybe some eyes and ears in spain may be able to help or would know what to do. Princess
princess
Posts: 4 | Location: Los Angeles USA | Registered: 07 November 2002
Hi Jeremy, We were in love and all of a sudden he just dissapeared on me. The phone calls, email, he was supposed to come here again, all stopped with no explanation. It just made me wonder if he is married and a wife found out. or else something happen to him. I cannot get through to his number either. My heart is broken and i cannot believe i was lied to so bad if he is married. I guess i will never know. But thanks for your help and if you can think of anything i could do that would be great. Me
princess
Posts: 4 | Location: Los Angeles USA | Registered: 07 November 2002
Hi princess2002, a very strange case I must admit.
Even stranger is the fact that no other members have any ideas on this
I hope he is ok and nothing bad happened to him
It is odd that his company has been around for some time (at least since 1997, the year od that traffic fine) and that nothing comes up on it when we do an internet search, no website, comments, news, �nada!
I don't know, if he were married I think you would have had some type of suspicion when you were with him, no?
What a terrible thing to do if he really was lying to you
Unfortunately, that info would not be found online at the Ayuntamiento website ( www.bilbao.net )
Same problem as with the "Registro Civil".
princess2002 knows he is there but she needs to find out if he is married or not, a nect to impossible task, especially since she does not read nor speal Spanish and is way back in L.A.
What to do?????????
Saludos, jer...
p.d. princess2002, I think it may be time to offer up his name
I agree jer, perhaps if princess could give a name, then maybe someone in Bilbao could go see if he is "empadronado" in the Town hall and who else is living in that household?
I know I am just too curious, princess, but how long have you known him, how old are you (and him) etc etc!!
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to all, i am hesitant to post his name here in the open.what if someone HE knows see it?? As for the questions, we are both over 40, known each other for almost a year. Not so young(but still looking good) but i did not think i was so naive. I will say he is well known for his business and has some popular stores including one in madrid and on the gran via. he has done commercials for what he sells and other stuff. he may be more well known then even i know. this info really would not be that difficult to find out if one was there and spoke the language. i will tell his name and other info(if jeremy doesn't mind) if you leave your email address on this site and i will email you back. i would love to say his name here and see what kind of response i would get. but that must be in private. by the way what are these words you guys mentioned to look? an Ayuntamiento and empadronado? Thanks all for help, this could get interesting.Jeremy feel free to email me because i can trust to give you information also. pincess
princess
Posts: 4 | Location: Los Angeles USA | Registered: 07 November 2002
Princess, The ayuntamento (town hall) will not give you information unless you are related. (same with Registro Civil)
The only time that the marriages are posted is when you want to get married in Spain, the ayuntamento has to make public the intention of marriage for a certain time period. So if he's married, it's too late for that. Also, if he has any intention of getting married again, then it would be posted again (this is so someone can object to the marriage if they disagree.)
Through google or the white pages section of the yellow pages of spain (maybe jer can help if you give him the guys name, since you can't read spanish).
Now you said you've known him for a year? Did you have any contact with his family or friends that went to visit? Did you ever go there? If you had any contact with them and something bad happened, I'm sure you would have heard about it by now. Also, since it seems a bit shady everything else, you can't really be sure he returned to Bilbao, can you?
If he's got shops in Madrid and other places...he could very well be somewhere where he has his businesses... I don't know if I'd recommend hopping on a plane to search for him... but do what you have to do. I'd start with trying to find a friend nearby who knows enough spanish to help you do some investigating on the web.
Also, the phone number of his you have, is it a cell phone number or a regular spanish telephone number. (does it begin with a 6?) If its a regular telf. number, you may be able to find his address or info also through the net- it may at least be a step in the right direction.. or a clue if he still lives in the same place!
I don't know about the situation... and I know it must be terrible to be in the place you are now, but if he's abondoned your relationship, you may just have to accept the fact that you may never get the closure you want and move on!
Take it a day at a time. Best of luck to you!
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Posts: 387 | Location: Madrid | Registered: 19 October 2002
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